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A moment not so plesent

Akanksha July 02, 2021

This world is filled up with people who are not happy with their multiple life situations and I happen to be just 1 of them. No matter how much I try to pull myself up there comes a moment(sometimes moments) that pulls me down to the core. When every possibility seems impossible. Where I find myself as the most confused person on this planet. It is one such moment, right here I am in the middle of it.

while for ages now, I decided to do things and live life differently(Not entirely but certainly in a different way) I see myself still struggling to be at peace on a regular basis. There is a constant struggle I have had with my relationships. Be it my father, mother, or husband. Everyone is constantly giving their best shot at being difficult to me. Right now too, my husband is more interested in eating and drinking than me or someone else. And my father is more interested in I don't know what......He just makes sure that and my mother suffer. My sister who otherwise(Normally) would have been my support is autistic and is a liability herself. I am not in the position to take care of her and my mother because of my unsupportive husband who is mostly not on the same page with me.

All I can do right now is hope for the best and wish all things add up to something which is best for everyone.

Real feminist

Akanksha December 31, 2020

It's 31 December today. The last day of the year 2020. It's been a so-so year but I have nothing to complain about as things have been worst for other people as compared to me. The year has been very bad for few people but me repeating them all here wouldn't make it any better so I am not doing that. I am writing what I feel is the actual and practicable feminism (as a woman).

what we essentially need to do is to cut down the privileges of men who enjoy them for nothing(just because they have a penis in their pants). For example,

Don't let them drive a car when they are alone when you are not allowed to use it for your personal use.
Don't let him hang out late alone when he is not including you in any of his get-togethers or don't allow you to hang out with your friends.
Don't let him check your phone when he doesn't let you see his phone.
Don't tell him what are you doing when he doesn't tell you what he is.
Don't respect him when he doesn't respect you.
If he prioritizes his choices over yours or doesn't even know about your choices then it's better to ignore him and get going with your kinda choices in everything.
If he doesn't love you then dont love him neither pretend to love.
If he doesn't take your suggestions then you don't take his suggestions on hairstyle, clothes, or makeup.
If he disrespects your family then you also should not regard his family too. (don't disrespect as we are better than them)